Friday, May 30, 2008

Round Robin


Spring... Oh, what a magical time it is. I always feel a new energy and love for life as the days grow longer and warmer. It is like being awoken from a long sleep by the budding trees and chirping birds.  This particular spring has been absolutely gorgeous. Many, many perfectly sunny days with just the right amount of refreshing breeze.  Knowing that these lovely days are limited, we have been trying to take full advantage by having plenty of picnics and playground outings. Usually it feels like spring and fall are too short, almost skipped over, in this part of the country, and that is why this year has been an especially wonderful treat.  We are actually having a real, true spring. 
Another reason it has been particularly enjoyable to us is because a mother robin red-breast decided to build a nest right next-door to our house. No one is living there at the time, and we were lucky enough that she deemed this spot, above the outdoor light, a lovely place to lay her eggs.  I can't tell you how wonderful it has been to observe this busy mama bird; every step of the nesting process has been utterly fascinating and beautiful.
For the past month or so, it has been so exciting to step out the front door and notice the latest developments within the nest. We watched her working diligently on its construction, and then for days after, she was sitting there, keeping her eggs nice and warm.  Of course, when we first opened the door, she would fly to the closest wire and wait to return when she felt it was safe.  I often found myself talking to her out loud, telling her it's okay, we wouldn't hurt her or her nest. I think I even told her I loved her once or twice (I know that is a little bit wierd, but I sort of meant it and also wanted Victor to hear such positive words.) Many times, I would proudly point out the nest to total strangers walking by. She felt like my very own bird and I wanted to show her nest off. Most people thought it was amazing just like me, others just nodded, thinking I was a crazy lady.  
Finally and much to our delight, we saw the heads of three fuzzy chicks sticking straight up out of their nest, their beaks spread wide open. We witnessed the mother dutifully feeding them worm after worm after worm. (And I thought I had a hard job.) So quickly it seemed the babies grew and lost there fuzz. They started to look around, more interested in there surrounding, and there continued to be much more movement and shifting around, trying to get comfortable in such a small space. I knew it wouldn't be long before they would be ready to leave the nest and I sort of dreaded it. 
So, yesterday morning, while Ivan was taking his first nap, Vic and I were in my bedroom putting on our "day clothes" when I heard the mother bird sitting on the wire, inches away from our window, making this strange sound. The funny thing was that she was sitting there with a mouthful of worms, and I swear, (don't laugh) she was looking in the window at us and then back at her nest, making this almost panicked peeping noise, almost like she was trying to tell us something. I sensed that something was wrong so I threw on a house dress and poor Vic was only half dressed (no pants, just a shirt and undies) when I ran down the stairs to the front door.  As soon as I looked out, I saw one of the chicks on the step. It was shaking and just sitting there, looking so small and helpless; I felt like I had to come to its rescue. So, now my adrenaline was running and I hurried back inside to get out the step ladder and a paper towel. Before leaving the house again, I called an old lady, neighbor friend, who is a major animal lover to tell her the news. She came running out, encouraging me to go through with the rescue mission. Keep in mind, Vic was following me around, looking like a neglected child, amused by the whole event. After many failed attempts, I finally scooped the poor little thing up as gently as I could, shakily climbed up the ladder and placed it back in the nest, only to have scared the heck out of the other two birds and out they both popped. You should have heard the loud gasping sounds Miriam and I made. Once out of the nest, the baby birds were pretty quick on their feet and were able to fly just for a second but then they would fall back to the ground with a thud (more gasping). Well, like a bunch of idiots, my neighbor and I continued to chase them all around the block, stopping traffic a couple times to prevent them from getting run over. Several times more, we tried to put them back safely where they were hatched. But it was no use, they were out in the dangerous world of alley cats, evil teenagers, and fast cars. 
At one point, I heard Victor say, "Ewww...Mommy, look!" and he held up his finger with a little ball of bird poop on it.  He claims that one of the baby robins had pooped on him, but I suspect that he was picking some off the step under the nest. The crazy thing is that I sort of ignored him because I was so fixed on trying to be a savior when I should have just left well enough alone. After sadly giving up, we went back in and heard Ivan screaming in his crib. We quickly washed our hands and got him. After finally dressing, I then had to run around and get everything together to spend the day at my parent's house. Under my breath, I said "I should have been doing this while the baby was sleeping instead of interfering with nature."  Vic said, "Yeah, why did you do that?" I answered, "Because I was concerned about the birds," to which he replied "Well, I was concerned about the birds pooping on me."
Seriously though, I hadn't realized that I would become so attached to them, but now every time I look up at the empty nest, I feel a slight aching in my heart. I truly miss that mother robin and her sweet babies. Just like I will miss these sweet spring days while I am boiling in the heat of the summer.

Monday, May 26, 2008

Tow a bro.






This is SUCH a blast. 
To Bryan's dismay, Vic has not been totally into riding his bike.  What happens is, he will like it one day and then the next, he's scared and wants me to hold onto the handle bars in case he falls. BUT I think this whole towing business is going to change that real quick.  It's really a win/win situation.  Victor is gaining confidence on his "fire bike," you know Ivan enjoys the ride, and I get a good work-out, running next to them. I don't know how my neighbors can handle this, it really is painfully cute to watch.

Glass cleaner?


Feet first, please.

Bryan took this one today. I was busy keeping Ivan from eating wood chips. Victor knows that he is not allowed to go down the slide in this position, but obviously his daddy is unaware of this rule.  Sure looks like fun. Thank goodness he didn't crack his head open. 

Frog line-up

Ever since Victor was a toddler, he has always been into lining things up. I think he craves the feeling of having complete control by keeping things as organized as possible.  Also, being able to sit back and admire his work and keep track of everything is very important.  When he was in his terrible two's and we were on a play date, he would become absolutely devastated and cry inconsolably if someone dared rearrange his perfect line-up. Now, he just gets nervous and starts to whine. What a difference a year or two can make!
Here he is in the "bug tree house" of his bedroom, lining up his favorite frogs.  He was either pretending that they were in a gift shop at a natural science museum and some really nice person, like myself, was going to buy them as a present for a lucky little boy, named Victor's birthday. Either that or that these frogs are poisonous tree frogs of the Amazon rain forest, and just one of these little guys can kill 100 people, but he is a special scientist who is immune to their venom and can handle them as he pleases.  You see, these frogs like him because they know he is trying to help the rain forest and therefore, won't hurt him.
Our talented friend, Dan, painted the "Victor" art in his bedroom when V was just a newborn.  Isn't it great?  It's adds so much character to the small space. I love it and am trying to get him to do an "Ivan" one, too. 

Friday, May 23, 2008

Fun Friday


                             


The first photo illustrates the pure joy that Ivan feels while rattling his snack container, or anything else that makes a neat sound, or really anything that he finds interesting, for that matter.  Also, please notice the dog in the top left-hand corner. What a stylish canine!  Unfortunately, you can't see the white barrette on top of her delicate little head.
The second shot is of Ivan enjoying the early birthday present that I just couldn't resist giving to him because now is the time that he is learning to walk on his own and pushing the Radio Flyer Walker Wagon is the perfect way to practice his new skill. (Didn't I sound like a commercial?) It is amazingly entertaining to watch him cruise around with that thing.  
The last two are of the boys rocking on our front porch...I wish. They were actually taken at my sister's place of employment where we went to eat a free scrumptious lunch. Notice Victor's favorite t-shirt, which says "prehistoric fishes."  Someone must have designed this with Vic in mind.  (Thanks, Nicole, for spotting this treasure at Target.)
All in all, it was a wonderful day, plenty of sunshine, perfect temps of around 70, lots of outdoor fun, pizza party for dinner, both boys in bed by 8.  I can't complain.  (Well, I did just spend over two hours making a huge batch of deviled eggs for tomorrow's Memorial Day picnic and now my legs are aching a little, but... whatever.)
      

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Creature Crazy

These are the latest in Victor's creature collection.  He "won" them at a spring fair this past weekend.  Boy, oh boy, was he thrilled!


He played happily with them for quite a while on Sunday morning right on the front stoop. I just love watching him absorbed in his own world. No cares in the world. Just him and his creatures.

Saturday, May 17, 2008

Goin' for a ride...

Ivan had his first bike ride!!!  I think he enjoyed it although he was fully concentrating on removing his helmet the entire time.   I had a total blast though.
Of course Vic had to get in on the fun.  Notice how hard Ivan is trying to pull that thing off?
This is my kindred spirit, Kathryn, keeping the bike steady.  I could go on and on about this girl.  She is one of the most important people in my life, the most supportive and loving friend, kind, gentle, selfless, fun.  She was one of my birth coaches for Ivan's delivery. I love her more than words could express.
How does that pick-up truck taste, Ivan?
This little doll-face is Baby Belle.  Such a little sweetheart, that one. I just want to squeeze her. She and Ivan are already having fun together.

Friday, May 16, 2008

Gross, Yet Funny.

I took this photo after our dinner break at a rest stop. We went on a road trip today to visit my oldest dear friend, Julie, who lives about an hour away... on a good day with little traffic. Well, today was NOT one of those days.  It was a super rainy day and the roads were ridiculously jammed up. We had a long trip up and an even longer trip back. I was pretty close to going insane at certain points.  Like when Ivan was crying very sadly with big, big tears. I couldn't resist pulling over on the side of the highway many times to retrieve his fallen pacies and even to nurse him at one point. Not fun.  Fortunately, Vic was such a good boy and hardly complained.  At one point though after about two solid hours of travel, he announced "I HATE sitting here and sitting here, driving in the rain."  Now, I usually disapprove the use of this negative word, but at the time I couldn't agree with him more.  
Despite the nightmarish trip, we really had a great visit with lots of laughs. We went to a pancake house for lunch where I got a tuna melt and Vic, a hot dog.  (You see, we had waffles for breakfast and therefore, weren't in the mood for more sweet food.)  Then we visited this really great local museum of natural sciences, which of course meant we had an extremely happy boy on our hands.  Victor was in his element.  I mean, he just soaked it all up, as quickly as he could.  I even let him pick out three more creatures from the gift shop, but he has to wait to get them until his birthday which is less than a month away.  A lesson in patience.
So, about the picture.  How gross is this?  Who in there right mind would have thought this was an appropriate or sanitary spot for an infant/toddler seat?!?  Poor Ivan. I just couldn't resist putting him in there.  I mean, it really was convenient to strap him down somewhere for a minute and I knew it would be one funny flick. 
Don't worry, I immediately, completely scrubbed his hands.  

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Peace out, paci.

BEFORE:
AFTER:
Hurray!!  Victor is now officially a "big boy."  This past week we said goodbye to his pacifier.  I know, I know, the kid is almost four years old and it's a little nuts that we didn't do this sooner. You see, I had planned to do away with the blasted thing last year when he turned three, but it ended up being a difficult time to do it. With the arrival of his new baby brother,  I didn't have it in me to take away his biggest comfort. And to tell you the truth, I wasn't ready to give it up.  That pacifier had some miraculous power.  Vic would be bouncing off the walls and the second I popped it into his mouth, he was instantly sedated, like I had given him a tranquilizer.  It was great!  So, really it is my fault that he has been addicted for so long.  I was an enabler.  And to tell you the truth, I think I am missing it more than he is.  
So this is how we did it.  I told him that when he is ready, we will take him to his favorite gift shop and essentially "pay" for two new things with his two remaining pacifiers.  He didn't even hesitate when he said "I'm ready right now."  So, after a couple more days, we put them in a zip-lock bag (because we didn't want to gross out the clerk) and headed on over to the museum where he picked out a plastic dimetrodon and a kit which included a chisel, a hammer, safety glasses and a "rock" with a prehistoric shark and two shark teeth hidden inside.  What a mess we made on the kitchen floor being paleontologists!  
  It has been almost a week now and he has handled this all so unbelievably well.  Only the first couple days in the early morning did he say "I need something to suck on," to which I replied only, "Sorry, Vic," and then waited for some major tear shedding.  But after a couple whimpers, he went right back to sleep.  WHAT!?! Could that be all?  I was really expecting it to be a torturous couple weeks of bad sleep and lots of drama. I mean, this thing has been in his mouth evertime he went to sleep since he was a newborn.  I guess he was ready. He is having a slightly difficult time settling down at night, but that is it.  There hasn't even been any begging and pleading to borrow one of Ivan's.  I am pleasantly surprised and oh, so relieved. 
It helps that he still has his "blankie" which can be seen in both photos. 
The day after, he said, wistfully, "I wonder where my pacies are right now."  I couldn't bring myself to tell him they were in the trash, so I said "maybe a newborn baby is sucking on them as we speak."  I could see that this answer made him happy.  
I am so proud of him.
Now, I have to work on the whole dressing himself thing....   

Saturday, May 10, 2008

Motherhood




I am utterly exhausted.  Never do I sleep the night uninterrupted. There are bags under my eyes and my brain is in a perpetual fog. Sometimes, I seriously wonder if I am becoming prematurely senile. I can't remember what I did yesterday, and poor Bryan becomes quite frustrated when I mindlessly put empty milk containers back in the fridge.
Laundry rules my life.  No matter how many loads I do in a day, there are many more waiting to get done. I can not walk around the house without tripping over toys and after cleaning them up, the house gets messy again, almost instantaneously.  My clothes are stretched out from constantly being pulled and are never without multiple stains.  My hair is overgrown but I can't seem to find the time to stop and make an appointment for a cut.  Even after ten months, the skin on my stomach is ridiculously stretched out.  My back aches every night after a long day of carrying my gigantic baby. 
I am in high demand around the clock.  Always needed.  Never a moment's peace.
Yet, I am happier than ever.  My life has more meaning and fulfillment than I could have imagined.  The pure love and intense pride I feel for my boys every second of the day makes all the chaos, all the insanity worthwhile.  I am truly blessed to be a mom.    

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Picnic Party







                  WOW.  What a glorious day!
Ivan awoke at the ungodly hour of 4 am.  So, he was a bit ornery at times (and so was I,) but all in all it was a wonderful day.  Victor created some beautiful art work this morning which really made my day.  Up to this point, he has been a full-on book worm, no interest in coloring or drawing, just reading, staring at and analyzing millions of books.  But he spent a big chunk of time while Ivan napped, quietly illustrating some prehistoric fish and crustaceans. I am so thrilled that he is finally getting into it.  I love children's art work, especially my own.
  We met out dear friends for a picnic lunch at our favorite waterfront park.  It was sunny, warm and breezy- absolutely perfect weather.  Noah, the sweetest and most musical little boy, is several months younger than Vic, and Ray, who is funny and feisty and could pass for Ivan's twin, is just a couple weeks younger than Ivan.  We get together almost once a week, and the boys always have a great time together.  And Nicole is a fabulous person and a wonderful example of what a mother should be. We are so blessed to have them as friends.
  This evening, we constructed a tent in the "backyard" using old sheets and chairs.  Atari, V's future bride, came over for her weekly playdate.  They went in to play and we didn't see them again until dinner was ready.  It reminded me of my childhood days when my brothers and I spent many hours making and playing in many forts.   
 

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

la bella biblioteca




So, here are the boys today at our lovely library.  Earlier in the day, we went to an open house to check out a school for Victor to start kindergarten in 2009. (That is the reason for the name tag.) I really liked this old Quaker school and if it all works out, Vic will be in the same class with two of his best friends, Atari and Noah.  Fingers crossed.  

Monday, May 5, 2008

Sunny Stockley





It was another glorious spring day.  We cruised on over to the playground this morning and had some real fun.  Victor rode his bike while I pushed Ivan in the stoller.  I'm afraid we may have had too much fun, for now I am feeling oh, so very weary.  Need to go to sleep and recharge.  Thought it would be nice to share some of the photos I took with my new point and shoot- Nikon Coolpix S550.  I really enjoyed playing with my new toy.  Almost as much as Ivan enjoyed his dried apple.

Sunday, May 4, 2008

See my snake?

MY JESTERS



We made these at the weekly art-n-crafts day at our local library, which we frequent at least once a week.  I absolutely adore the place.  It has saved my sanity on many occasions.  There is a huge children section, although we spend a lot of time in the "adult section" where all the science books are.  The gigantic windows provide tons of natural light.  

Saturday, May 3, 2008

Eight Steps








This is a fun little game we play many times throughout the day.  I place Ivan a couple feet in front of me and before taking my hands off his round fluffy belly, I make sure he has gained some sort of balance. Instantly, he recognizes what is going on and his face lights up.  He has my full attention and it is time to practice his favorite trick of walking on his own.  
Even before letting go, he is in forward motion. I quickly scoot back, extending my arms and wiggling my fingers. In a loud, clear voice, I say "C'mere, Ivan. Come to Mommy."   With his mouth wide as can be, he shoots his arms up high and his little sausage feet are off. Laughing excitedly, Victor and I loudly count his quick steps and cheer him on.  We are beaming with pride and Ivan is soaking it all in. When he gets within inches of me, he dives right into my arms and nestles his face deep into my chest where I hold him for several love-filled seconds, squeezing him tight while still laughing.  This delightful process is repeated again and again, each time gaining more enthusiastic laughter. 
Everyday, he is improving and before I know it he will be running, jumping, skipping and spinning.  In a matter of months, I will look back at these days when my baby's greatest feat was eight solo steps, when he depended on my safe arms to catch him, and I will wonder where the time went.  With this knowledge, I am determined to savor every step.